How To be a Successful Man , Create Your won ways to get Success

The market is full of books teaching success tips, yet only a few people benefit from it. The reason for this is not to misunderstand the rules of these books, but to adapt them to our circumstances. Therefore, it is very important that we change these rules according to our own or simply say that we can make our own rules by making them the basis.

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Everyone has their own circumstances, hopes and limitations. We have to decide our destination and paths within and according to those boundaries. Without knowing them, someone sitting far away can tell us how to succeed. Yes, he can give us a guide, but it would be foolish to consider everything written by him as a stone.

For example, everyone writes - 'Should get up early in the morning' but it is not possible for a person working in a night shift to get up early in the morning, then he cannot succeed. On the contrary, he can make the rules of sleeping and waking according to himself, it is said that there is a greater age than religion. Religion is the true law that should be adopted. So more than that, these are the rules which are true according to the time. Killing his relatives in the Mahabharata was not Yugadharma but Arjuna's religion.

Now the question comes how do we make rules for ourselves. First of all, looking at our educational, economic, social conditions, family, friends and self interest, let us decide what we have to do. As soon as we decide, we also see a way to get it. Now what should be the hindrances in running this? These obstacles can be both around us and inside us. If we have taken care of the circumstances while deciding, then it will not bother us much.

If there are internal obstacles such as laziness, carelessness, lack of memory, etc., then we have to make some rules for self-discipline as well. For example, to leave laziness, hang a board of your purpose in the house, etc. Yes, you can also take help of some books and experienced people here, but do not follow them. Otherwise, you will have to leave everything in a few days and come back to the old pattern.

In this way, to make the rules more practical for you, it is necessary that you have options, so that you can make changes if you have some trouble halfway. In this way you will find that you yourself have become the key to success.

You must have realized that whenever there is a problem, its solution also comes in our mind, and it is best, because your brain knows you best. After all your existence is your mind. So leave the advice of many opinionists with seminars and Hindi-English books from all over the world and think about yourself silently, then see that a book will open inside you which contains the true rules of success.

A famous psychologist said that I have the best advice for myself, but I do not believe it and I fail to come in the words of others. Remember, life is your own. Don't let it become someone else's laboratory. Identify yourself, guide you, succeed and yes, if possible, do not impose your rules on others.