Be a Better Person by 15 Ways, How To Be Better More

Who in today's world wants someone to call him bad, all people do evil to him, no one respects him?  Will there be a single person in the world?  Not according to me.  Every person in the world wants that wherever he goes,


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  Everybody praise him, praise him, respect him, love him and call him good.  But can this happen only by wanting?  For this, we have to do good work, make some improvements in ourselves and adopt some qualities.  Goods have to be increased by eliminating the evils within you.  Only when you do good things will people recognize you, praise you, respect you and call you a better and ideal person.

Today I am going to tell you some such ways, I am going to tell you some things that by adopting you can make yourself a better person, become an ideal person.

1. Treat everyone equally / do not discriminate.

It is human nature that our way of talking to people on the basis of caste or economic basis changes while talking to people.  If someone is bigger than us, then we talk to him with great respect, while we do not talk to the poor or younger people with as much respect. Why?

Friends, be it small or big, rich or poor, small or big in rank or status, higher caste or lower caste, your neighbor or relative, whatever means, any religion or any other.  Regardless of caste, everyone should be treated equally.  Never consider anyone small or big on caste or economic basis.  In the office or in the place where you work, if someone is less than you or your junior or you are of lower caste, then my friends treat him the same way, respect him equally, even more than that.  Only talk with decency, as much as you do with more salary than you or senior or senior person.  And apply the same thing in your life too.  Never discriminate against anyone in any way.  Friends, all human beings are made up of the above.  When he has given everyone the same sky, the same earth, the same air, when he has not discriminated against anyone, then why do you?

If you treat everyone the same, then you will become the choice of every small person and then everyone will respect you.

2. Respect the elders, love the younger ones.
We should respect all people older than us.  And not only family or relatives in your home, but every elder person found anywhere or anywhere should be respected.  Whether someone is rich or poor, irrespective of religion or caste, if a person is older than us, then we should respect him, respect him and likewise treat every person younger than us.  .  Must be treated with respect and decency.

3. Do not lie, be honest.

Never lie in life nor live with anyone's lies.  Always be honest.  Always be truthful.  People will lose faith in you by lying and then no one will trust you.  No matter what happens, no matter how big, or how big a mistake, never lie.  Confess your mistake and tell the truth.  Telling the truth increases people's trust in you and forgives your mistakes.  While lying, the problem is aggravated further.  Everyone respects the person who speaks the truth.  All obey him.

4. Do not cheat anyone, do not cheat.
Never do anything bad to anyone.  Do not do anything wrong with anyone.  Do not cheat anyone, do not ever cause any grief to anyone, nor do any deception and fraud with anyone, nor support anyone in doing bad things.  Do not be jealous or jealous of anyone.  Whatever you have

  Whatever you are, be content and be happy.  As long as you keep doing bad things to others or thinking about doing bad things, you cannot become a good person, till then you cannot become a better person.  Never do evil behind anyone's back.  Do not cheat anyone, do not tell anyone anything wrong about anyone, do not provoke anyone against others.  All these actions make us a bad and useless person in the eyes of the people.

5. Help others.

Helping people makes us a good person in their eyes.  We should help others as much as we can or whatever we deserve.  Help the poor, the weak and the helpless as much as possible.  When we give a little help to someone, the mind gets a different relief from the prayers offered by him.  And helping others is our religion as well as our duty as a human being.  If we ever come to some work in life or if some of our work helps someone or something benefits someone, then what better religion would it be for us?  Helping someone, blessing someone, is a sign of good people, a divine quality.  If for some reason you are unable to help someone, then at least give him emotional support, give him positive comfort.

6. Do not boast.

A good hearted person never boast about anything.  Never pretends for anything.  If by the grace of God you have some things more than others, then do not show them off.  If you have a good house, car, wealth and wealth today, do not boast about it.  Rather thank God for these things and make yourself better than before.  Do good work and instead of showing off, inspire others to do good work too.

7. Be responsible.

Regardless of your age, you should fulfill all your responsibilities responsibly according to your age.  Never run away from your responsibilities.  There are many responsibilities with every human being, such as home family responsibility, children's responsibility, social responsibility etc.  We have to take care of every responsibility we have, to serve our parents and elders, to give good sanskars and good education to our children, to take care of our husband or wife and to support them in every happiness, sorrow at every step, our brother-  Giving love and importance to sisters, indulging in the happiness and grief of friends, neighbors, relatives, protecting and abiding by our country and law, etc. should be performed with honesty.  Only then we will become a responsible citizen and only then we will become a better person.

8. Don't be angry / Don't be jealous.

Anger, anger, jealousy, jealousy all these demerits destroy our goodness.  If we are jealous or jealous of someone, we can neither be happy ourselves nor can we do anything good with anyone.  Anger destroys our ability to think.  No one likes angry humans.  Anger over talk makes us away from our loved ones.  So avoid getting angry as much as possible.

9. Give importance to relationships.

People who don't understand relationships, don't value relationships, don't like them.  So whether you are someone's brother, sister, mother, father, son, daughter, lover, girlfriend, friend or whatever kind of relationship you have with anyone, follow that relationship with honesty and determination.  Understand the importance of relationships, understand the dignity of relationships, understand the depth of relationships.  Do not let your relationships break down over trivial matters.  If you cannot maintain relationships, it is better that you do not build relationships.  A man of good heart never lets relationships break down, relationships do not break.

10. Admit your mistakes.

A good-hearted person always accepts his mistakes.  He never draws flaws in others.  He never finds the faults of others.  He accepts his mistakes and corrects them.

11. Forgive / forget.

If someone has made some mistake or you are angry with someone, then that thing should not be kept in your heart for long.  Forgive his mistakes as soon as possible and forget.  Forgiveness reduces the burden of the heart and forgetting reduces the burden of the mind.  An apology can only be given to a person with a big heart.  I believe that there are some things or some mistakes which can neither be forgiven nor forgotten.  If you also face such a situation, then you do two things.
  Either you forget the mistakes and forgive that person.

Or forget that person and forgive his mistakes.

When you start forgiving, your heart automatically grows and your count starts being good people.

12. Be Religious.

As a person becomes religious, his devotion to any deity or god begins to happen, so his bad deeds, bad thoughts, start to end on his own.  Faith, devotion, devotion to God takes us away from wrong paths to good paths and motivates us to become a good human being.

13. Always be positive.

No matter what the circumstances, we should always be positive.  A positive person always talks positive and also motivates people to become positive by going out of negativity.  The negative person also surrounds himself with negative thoughts and also talks negatively with other people.  Hence nobody likes a negative person.  And positive person is everyone's favorite.

14. Do social service.

Take part in social work.  Raise voice against the evils of the society, wasteful practices and contribute in closing them.  Make people aware.  Social work makes your image as a good and social person and you get respect everywhere.

15. Keep learning, increase your knowledge.

To give good advice to someone, it is important that you have complete information about that matter in order to tell a good thing.  So always make a habit of reading something new and learning something new.  So that when someone comes to you with a problem, you can solve it properly and give him good advice.
Friends, I have not told anything new here.  The methods I have mentioned here are known to almost everyone and most of them are also aware of them.  But these small things are such that most people do not take them seriously, so these qualities are slowly lost from inside people.
If you take these methods seriously and steadfastly, then these qualities will help you to become a better person by eliminating all the evils within you and will make you an ideal person and favorite person of all.  After that you will get respect everywhere.  People will appreciate you and your qualities and try to be like you by being inspired by you.

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