10 expectations we should not keep from others

There will hardly be any person who has never had or is not expecting anything from anyone. Or there is no hope. Every person has some kind of expectation from someone. Every person must have some expectation from their family, from their children, from their friends, from relatives. Parents expect from their children, children from parents, husband-wife, wife-husband, friend-friend, meaning everyone. It is a natural quality to keep expectation, and one should also keep it to some extent, otherwise life without expectations and expectations will become colorless. But when we have too much expectations from others or too much expectations, then these expectations also cause our sorrows. Like if we expect someone to change himself for us or become as we want or act according to us, then it would be stupid. Because when we cannot easily change ourselves for others, it is useless to expect from others, they are meaningless.

When someone meets our expectations or does what we want, then we are happy but when our expectations are not fulfilled, we get sad, upset, and break up inside.

Today I am going to tell you about 10 such things which should not be expected from others. Keeping these things in mind, we can avoid problems to a great extent, we can avoid tensions.

1. Do not expect others to always agree with you, agree with everything, every thought.

Every person has different thinking, opinion, and understanding. That is why it is not necessary that everyone agrees with everything or every idea, or always support you. Even your parents, your best friend or husband or wife do not agree with everything you do.

People don't agree on everything you don't mean that they want to let you down or they don't care about you. Maybe they have better solutions than you.

Some people do not want to agree with you intentionally. That is why do not always expect others to agree with you or everything you do.

2. Do not expect others to act according to you

Every person has a different way of doing his work, has a different choice and they work accordingly. Now if we expect them to do the same thing as we want, then it is not possible. Parents expect their children to study according to them and make a career according to them and support them in old age. In the same way, some people expect their family to run according to themselves, people working in the company, husband wife, lover girlfriend, relatives or friends also expect that people should follow them, work according to them. But when people do not work according to them, they do not work according to them, then they feel sad, a situation of quarrels or estrangement and tension increases. So let him do what he is doing. Yes, if it is more important, talk to the person and explain to him to do the work properly. But don't expect to do it your way.

3. Do not expect others to be perfect or make a mistake

Every human in the world is struggling for something. No one is perfect. There are some shortcomings in everyone or we remove some shortcomings in other people. There is no one who does not make mistakes. Everyone makes a lot of mistakes and only after making mistakes, a person learns and makes himself better than before. That is why you want, like, or any member of your family or friend, do not expect anyone to be perfect or never make mistakes.

4. Never expect anyone to change them for you

It is very difficult for anyone to change oneself. Yes, some people can give happiness to others by giving up wrong habits or wrongdoing. But it is very difficult for anyone to change completely. Some people do not change themselves because of their ego, so the expectations of some people are needless, meaningless. For example, some people in the house, family or relationship start to expect that people sleep according to them, wake up according to them, eat their favorite food, wear clothes of their choice, T.V. of their choice. Watch the channel, change your habits for them, do not go to hang out with friends or talk to friends more. Every person's choice is different. Which makes him happy he does the same thing. If you cannot change yourself for all these things then you should not expect this from others.

5. Never expect anyone to change them

Are you still the same as you were two years ago? Are your thoughts, your desires, your hobbies still the same as they were two years ago? Probably not. Then how can we expect others to never change?

In today's time, every person is fighting in his life, fighting a war to improve himself, to change his life.
Over time, life's priorities change, because of responsibilities, depending on our experiences, according to circumstances, or a lot changes within a human being to improve themselves. His thinking, hobbies, living habits, desires, his dreams change.
Change is the rule of nature. That is why we should never expect from anyone that the human being should be the same for us even today. Nor should anyone complain about this.
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6. Never expect anyone to always support you

If there is someone in your life who will always be with you, who will be with you in all your happiness and sorrow, who is ready for you at any time, then what good luck can happen to you?

But in today's time, it is very difficult to meet such a person and even if one is found, people do not appreciate him. In today's time everyone comes to you in some way or the other. As soon as its meaning is fulfilled, it leaves you. Even people in your family, friends, relatives or the person you love the most, will not always support you without meaning. Very few people support anyone selflessly. That is why it would be better not to expect this from people, never expect that they will support you in every situation or always.

7. Don't expect others to understand you

Some people complain that no one understands them. Friends are busy with their work. No one has enough time to listen and understand your point or your problem carefully. And most people have no interest in listening to you seriously. Even your mockers will be found. When you talk to someone about your heart or problems, most people defer that joke or make fun of it or do not pay attention to your words. Due to which you are troubled inside, you keep on kneeling. Discuss with others about your problems or anything, but do not expect them to understand you, understand your problems, understand your feelings. You have to get out of your problems and problems on your own and fulfill your dreams on your own.
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8. Do not expect others to respect you

Look at yourself in a mirror and think seriously about yourself that you are really what you pretend to be in front of others or you pretend to be a liar in front of people. Make yourself worth that honor. Make yourself what you see in front of others. Do good deeds, help people, do not harm anyone, be happy and keep others happy too. Nobody respects people who pretend.

The image that you have in your mind about yourself, it is not necessary that you have the same image in the minds of others. People always treat you with their mind and knowledge. The more they have brains, the more they have knowledge, they will talk to you in the same way. Sometimes some people do not get respect according to their work, knowledge and qualification, sometimes people expect to get respect only because of ego without any work or knowledge. Some people do not respect others because of their ego. So never expect anyone to respect you.

9. Do not expect others to love you forever

It is not always necessary that the feelings you have for someone in your mind, those feelings are also in your mind for you. Or think exactly what you think for someone. It is not always necessary that you do as much love and care as you do to others.

Every person's thinking, choice is different. When someone's heart falls on someone, when someone likes someone's words, when someone feels bad about something, when someone leaves someone else, it cannot be said. Here most people come to you by their work, by their means and after leaving work, after leaving their meaning, playing with your feelings, cheating you, leaving you.
That is why you love someone, of course, have some feelings towards someone, but never expect that they should always love you or they also have feelings for you.

10. Do not expect anyone to keep you happy

True happiness is always in itself. If you seek happiness outside you will find nothing but sorrow. You cannot expect others to make you happy, or that someone can keep you happy for life. Other people or those you want may not always do the things that make you happy. Or you cannot expect anyone to please you in all your sadness, every sorrow, every problem.

You will not always like the habits, hobbies, living habits of others, nor will anyone always like your habits, your hobbies, your living habits. At some point, you will have a quarrel with this matter, there will be disputes, there will be distances in the minds and there will be a situation of tension. Sometimes a lot of sadness, a lot of problems have to be faced alone and at that time no one is with you, no one gives you emotional support.

That is why you have to do such things yourself which can give happiness, keep you happy.
Friends, our expectations only cause our sorrows. We tend to have very high expectations from those who are close to us or those who are close to us, but when those expectations are not fulfilled, we feel bad, which creates distress in the minds and cracks in relationships Falls

Once you too calm down and think carefully about the above mentioned things and find out whether you are also getting upset by any such expectation from someone, you are not getting sad.

Therefore, read and understand the above mentioned things carefully. Do not keep the expectations of the other things which I have told you above. Only then you can reduce the troubles in your life and increase happiness.

Thank you